{"id":52696,"date":"2025-04-15T21:21:46","date_gmt":"2025-04-16T01:21:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jarissagarcia.com\/?post_type=solteros&#038;p=52696"},"modified":"2026-01-22T18:21:19","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T23:21:19","slug":"35-and-never-dated-heres-what-people-get-wrong-about-singleness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jarissagarcia.com\/en\/35-and-never-dated-heres-what-people-get-wrong-about-singleness\/","title":{"rendered":"35 and NEVER Dated? Here\u2019s What People Get Wrong About Singleness"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"\">Singleness is often viewed as an unfortunate situation to escape from, something that\u2019s wrong, a gap that needs to be filled \u2014 especially for those over 30. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"35 and NEVER Dated? Here\u2019s What People Get Wrong About Singleness\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oNUUaDBOZGw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">A recent post I encountered about single women over 35 went viral, suggesting that therapy is \u201cnecessary\u201d for those who haven\u2019t had a relationship by that age, or who\u2019ve faced failed relationships. While therapy can be a powerful tool for healing and personal growth, this kind of advice requires deeper reflection, particularly in how it\u2019s perceived in different cultural contexts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">When I read this, it made me reflect on something deeper \u2014 how discussions about relationships, personal growth, and healing can vary drastically across different cultures, particularly between English-speaking and Spanish-speaking communities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\" wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Complexity of Singleness and the Need for Nuance<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">In English-speaking environments, there\u2019s a growing recognition of the nuances involved in adult life, especially when it comes to issues of singleness and relationships. Mental health and emotional well-being have become central topics, with many people studying shifts in behavior, societal pressures, and how these impact our choices in relationships. Studies show that men in particular are falling behind in certain areas, such as emotional intelligence, education, and mental health awareness. These findings are pushing conversations about singleness beyond just \u201cfixing\u201d people and focusing more on understanding the <em>whys<\/em> behind the choices people make \u2014 including the decision to remain single.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">This kind of dialogue creates space for individuals to reflect on their personal journeys without the burden of external judgment. For many, it\u2019s about recognizing that life doesn\u2019t have a one-size-fits-all script. Therapy isn\u2019t about proving that something\u2019s \u201cwrong\u201d with you; it\u2019s about understanding and growth. The messages around singleness are more nuanced \u2014 recognizing that it\u2019s a phase of life that might need healing, introspection, or sometimes, simply the freedom to wait for the right person at the right time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">However, when you look at Spanish-speaking environments, particularly in Latin American cultures, there\u2019s often a different narrative. Here, there\u2019s a pervasive expectation of conformity \u2014 the timeline for relationship milestones is more rigid, and when someone doesn\u2019t fit that mold, judgment often follows. This can be especially true for women, who are often expected to marry and start families by a certain age. If you\u2019re past 30 or 35 and still single, you can quickly find yourself being labeled as \u201cproblematic,\u201d \u201cdifficult,\u201d or \u201ctoo picky.\u201d The question of <em>why<\/em> someone is still single is rarely met with empathy or a deeper exploration of life circumstances. Instead, it becomes a point of gossip and critique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\" wp-block-heading\"><strong>Judgment and the Pressure to Conform<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">In many Latin American cultures, there\u2019s a strong emphasis on traditional family structures and the idea that marriage and children are fundamental to personal fulfillment and societal acceptance. When someone is not married or in a relationship by a certain age, the assumption is often that they\u2019ve either failed or are somehow \u201cbehind.\u201d This judgment, unfortunately, makes people feel like they have to defend themselves or justify their life choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">In a cultural context like this, the idea that therapy might be \u201cnecessary\u201d simply because someone is still single after 35 carries a lot of weight. It feels like an accusation, as though you are the one who is broken, not the world around you. And this isn\u2019t just about individual relationships \u2014 it\u2019s about society\u2019s failure to accept diverse life paths, and the guilt that many single people feel as a result. It\u2019s easy to see why a post like the one I mentioned earlier might resonate in these cultures, despite its flaws.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">The reality is that there are many reasons why someone might still be single at 35 \u2014 from personal goals, career ambitions, to simply being in a season of waiting for the right person. For many people, being single isn\u2019t a punishment; it\u2019s a choice, a season of preparation, or a journey of healing. Therapy could be useful for someone who\u2019s been hurt or traumatized, but suggesting that therapy is necessary simply because of a relationship status doesn\u2019t account for the fullness of a person\u2019s story. It oversimplifies a complex, deeply personal experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\" wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Difference in the English-Speaking Conversation<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">In English-speaking cultures, there\u2019s a broader conversation taking place about the \u201cwhy\u201d behind singleness. More people are recognizing that not being in a relationship doesn\u2019t automatically mean there\u2019s something wrong with you. In fact, many people are choosing to stay single while they focus on personal growth, career goals, or healing from past trauma. Some are even advocating for a healthier view of relationships \u2014 one that doesn\u2019t pressure people to couple up just because they\u2019ve reached a certain age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">As this discussion evolves, we see a shift towards <em>self-empowerment<\/em>, where people are encouraged to live their best lives regardless of their relationship status. Therapy is no longer viewed as something you do when you\u2019re \u201cbroken,\u201d but as a tool for anyone who wants to grow and understand themselves better. This approach helps people reframe their lives with more empathy, less shame, and more space for individuality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\" wp-block-heading\"><strong>Bridging the Gap: What We Can Learn from Each Other<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">While the English-speaking world may be ahead in discussing mental health and the nuance of singleness, we must also recognize that Latin American cultures have their own strengths \u2014 such as the emphasis on close family ties, community, and faith. What both cultures need, however, is a deeper understanding of the diversity of life paths and the importance of nuance in conversations about relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">In English-speaking contexts, there\u2019s a push for people to redefine success on their own terms, and the same could be valuable in Latin American cultures. Rather than prescribing a universal timeline for relationships, we need to create space for people to live out their own journeys, free from the shackles of societal judgment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">It\u2019s time we all \u2014 regardless of where we\u2019re from \u2014 started leading conversations with <strong>empathy, grace, and a deeper understanding<\/strong> of the unique paths that everyone is walking. Singleness doesn\u2019t have to be a stigma, nor does it mean that something is wrong with you. It simply means that your story is unfolding at its own pace \u2014 and that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\" wp-block-heading\"><strong>Conclusion<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"\">Let\u2019s make room for <strong>nuance<\/strong> in the way we talk about relationships and singleness. Therapy can be a beautiful tool for growth, but let\u2019s not make it the <em>only<\/em> answer for people who don\u2019t fit society\u2019s narrow expectations. Whether you\u2019re in an English-speaking or Spanish-speaking environment, remember: Your worth is not defined by your relationship status. <strong>Embrace your journey<\/strong> with grace, and trust that God\u2019s timing is perfect \u2014 no matter where you are.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Singleness is often viewed as an unfortunate situation to escape from, something that\u2019s wrong, a gap that needs to be filled \u2014 especially for those over 30. 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